Thought for the Day: Oh the comfort that comes from being one’s own best friend.
We gain wisdom in a multitude of ways: by listening, observing, noting, experiencing, and perhaps most of all, if we are open to it, we gain wisdom from our glorious mistakes. I have certainly learned from mine. But from time to time, I find myself reliving the past and feeling guilty about things I cannot change. So with the coming of spring, I have written a “Message to Self”
Dear Self,
I forgive you for unthinking words spoken, foolish actions taken, opportunities missed, things left unsaid, and for often not living up to your own standards. (And were they really yours or someone else’s?) So if you find you are “shoulding” on yourself – cut it out! It’s a big waste of time.
Love,
Me
Ah, felt good to get rid of that baggage. Now on to checking out the daffodils, forsythia, budding leaves, etc. Join me.
As always, dear readers I appreciate your thoughts or comments.
Oh Boy — do I ever beat up on myself with all those ‘should’s'! Great idea to forgive me and move on. Now I can enjoy this glorious day — I feel lighter already!